2nd Lieut Joseph Bertie Friend

• Age: 29
• From: Margate, Kent
• Regiment: The King's (Liverpool Regiment) 17th Btn
• K.I.A Wednesday 21st August 1918
• Commemorated at: Vis-en-artois Memorial
  Panel Ref: Panel 4 & 6

Joseph Bertie was born at Margate, Kent on the 24th May 1889, the first son of Joseph Bertie Friend and his wife Mary Isabel (née Burkett). Joseph was baptised on the 30th June 1889 at St John the Baptist Church, Thanet. 

The 1891 Census shows him as a 1 year old living with his parents and sibling at Market Street, Margate, Kent. His father, also Joseph Bertie was born at Dover in 1865, his occupation is shown as a Master Butcher, whilst his mother was born in 1863 at Dover. He has a younger brother George Burkett b.1891. Also present in the household are Susann Collard described as a cousin and who is a butcher's book-keeper. There are also two servants recorded.

By 1901 the family are livng at 8 Park Place, Dover, Kent. Joseph Bertie is now 11 years of age. Both parents are present in the houshold as are his siblings; George B., Mary E. b.1893, Catherine A. b.1895, Nora I. b.1898, and Harry b.1901. There is one servant also recorded. 

The 1911 Census finds the family are still living at 8 Park Place. His father, Joseph, is aged 46, and is a butcher, his mother, Mary, is aged 48. They advised that they had been married for 22 years, and have had 6 children. Joseph Bertie is now 21 years of age and is shown as a butcher's son working in the business. Three younger siblings are listed; Catherine Amy, is aged 16, Norah Isabel, is aged 13, and Harry, is aged 10. There is also one servant present. 

Joseph was educated at St Dunstan’s College and joined the East Kent Yeomanry in May 1907. After leaving school he became a Butcher's Manager, Dover (1913) and was employed by his father.

He was called up and mobilised for service on the 05th August 1914, and quickly promoted through the ranks and served in the Dardenelles. It is quoted that he was invalided back home with 'enteric fever'. On his recovery, he signed on for a further four years service and following Officer training at Prior Park, Bath, he was commissioned and Gazetted 2nd Lieutenant to the 17th Battalion The King’s Liverpool Regiment in September 1917. He embarked for the Continent on 30th October 1917 and on the 03rd November reported for duty with ‘B’ Company of the Battalion, which was then stationed in the Hollebeke area of Belgium. For some time after that he acted as Transport Officer. 

His name was mentioned in the Dover Express on Friday 12th October 1917;

Second Lieutenant Friend, of Dover, has been gazetted to the Liverpool Regiment.

He was also mentioned in the Dover Chronicle on Saturday 15th June 1918, as being home on leave;

2nd-Lieut. J. B. Friend, King's Liverpool Regiment, is home on leave after some 8 months in the trenches in France. He is the son of Mr. and Mrs. J. B. Friend, formerly of Park Place.

He Served throughout the heavy fighting following the German breakthrough of March 1918 and then contracted Trench Fever, whereupon he was evacuated to England for treatment. After three weeks, he returned to France and was then attached to 13th Battalion of the King's Liverpool Regiment.

13th Battalion War Diary

CHOCQUES 21st August 1918

The Battalion was formed up at Hannescamps on the Somme, on the night of the 20th August, 1918 for an attack the following day, west of the railway at Aichet-Le-Grand, on a six hundred yard frontage, which was supported by tanks, and the first wave of troops was very quickly hit by severe machine gun fire.

Because of the mist and smoke, the advance had to be made on a compass bearing and quite a few tanks did not make it to the start line. This further impeded the advance and heavy casualties were sustained on the right flank which was exposed to the enemy. During the course of the action on this day, Second Lieutenant Friend was hit by Machine Gun fire and killed.

His body was never found and identified after the war and he is commemorated on the Vis-En-Artois Memorial to the Missing of the battles of August 1918, close to Arras, France. He was 29 years of age.

The Vis en Artois Memorial bears the names of over 9,000 men who fell in the period from 8 August 1918 to the date of the Armistice in the Advance to Victory in Picardy and Artois, between the Somme and Loos, and who have no known grave.

The memorial was designed by J.R. Truelove, with sculpture by Ernest Gillick. It was unveiled by the Rt. Hon. Thomas Shaw on 4 August 1930.

His commanding Officer, Major Howard wrote:

“Dear Sir, I regret to be the bearer of bad news of your Son’s death in action on the 21st inst., while leading his men forward in a most gallant manner. He was hit by a machine gun bullet and died at once. He was much esteemed by both officers and men, and his death leaves a sad gap. Offering you our very deepest sympathy, Yours very sincerely, WJW Howard Major. “

Lieutenant J. Robson Whittle writes,

"I have been told by his men how splendid he was at the time he was killed. He was one of the finest types of officer and gentleman, and by his courage, good comradeship and uprightness, made himself beloved by all who knew him."

His death was reported in the Dover Chronicle on Saturday 07th September 1918:

DEATH OF LIEUT. FRIEND.

News has been received of the death in action on the 21st August, of 2nd-Lieut. Joseph B. Friend, 17th Battalion The King's (Liverpool Regiment), eldest son of Mr. J. B. Friend, 152, Folkestone Road.

2nd-Lieut. Friend joined the R.E.K. Yeomanry at the age of eighteen, and was mobilised at the declaration of war. He was one of the first members to volunteer for foreign service. He attained the rank of sergeant, and proceeded to the Dardanelles with his regiment in 1915, where he contracted entèric fever, and was invalided home.

On his recovery he rejoined for a further four years' service and later trained at Prior Park, Bath, for his commission, being gazetted to the 17th Batt. K.L.R. in September, 1917. He joined his battalion in France in October, and for some time acted as transport officer. He was in the heavy fighting from March 21st.

He then had a bad attack of trench fever, and after three weeks sick leave in June returned to France, being attached to the 13th Battalion.

The following letter has been received by his father: "Dear Sir, I regret to be the bearer of the bad news of your son's death in action on the 21st inst., while leading forward his men in a most gallant manner. He was hit by a machine-gun bullet, and died at once, 25 yards W. of the railway at Achiet le Grand. He was much esteemed by both officers and men, and his death leaves a sad gap. Offering you our very deepest sympathy Yours very sincerely, W. J. W. Howard, (Major), August 28/18." 

Probate records show:

Friend Joseph Bertie of 152 Folkestone Road, Dover, 2nd Lieutenant 13th Battalion Liverpool Regiment died 21 August 1918 at Achiet le Grand, France. Killed in action. Administration London 28th March to Joseph Bertie Friend, butcher. Effects £203. 16s 4d.    

He was a member of the Masonic Lodge: 

He joined Corinthian Lodge No. 1208, the second lodge (mother Union Lodge) of his father (Senior) in 1913. His record shows that he was "Killed in Action Aug /16". He joined Castle Lodge No. 1436 at Sandgate on the 12th January 1914. This latter Lodge also shows a KIA annotation in the records, but with a date of death as 23rd August 1918.

Joseph Bertie earned his three medals.

Soldiers Effect, Army Pay of £92 18s 10d to father Joseph, no Pension record found.

On the 1939 Register his parents are living at St John’s Farm, Elham, Kent.

His father, died aged 75, in 1940 and was buried on the 24th January at All Saints, Westbere, Kent.

His father's death was featured in the Dover Express on Friday 26th January 1940;

DEATHS.

FRIEND. On January 20th. at Broomewood, Swingfield, Joseph Bertie Friend, of Dover, aged 75 years.

His mother, Mary, died in 1941.

Her death also featured in the Dover Express on Friday 05th December 1941;

FRIEND. - On Sunday, November 30th, at Clevedon, Somerset, Mary Isabel, wife of the late Joseph Bertie Friend, of Dover, aged 79 years. Interred at Swingfield.

Grateful thanks are extended to the book Great War (Wilson & Hammerton ) Vol. 12 for permission to reproduce the photograph of Joseph Bertie Friend now shown on the website. 

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